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Wednesday, March 25, 2015

"My life is ridiculous!!!" (March 23, 2015)

Hello! (Echo: Hello!) Hello! (Echo: Hello!) We welcome you today!

"Here's my [week] so far:"

Monday was a wonderful, and restful. We did the usual: grocery shopping, cleaning, emails. Then we had a couple hours of nothing scheduled, so Sister Bates took me to what she calls the "Nerd shop." the have EVERYTHING. I'm not even kidding. The have mugs, key chains, books, cookie jars t-shirts, cookbooks, everything. You name it they have it. They had Harry Potter wands, a remote control wand (meaning you can play like you have a wand, and it would adjust volume, change channels, or switch from DVD to TV or whatever. it was so cool!)  They had Marvel, Harry potter, Hunger Games, Dr. who, Star Wars, and several other themes. It was fantastic!! iI was probably good we didn't have a whole heck of a lot of time, because I would have stayed there as long as I could. It was my favorite. I told Sister Bates "I wish we could take pictures of this stuff." it made me so happy :D

Tuesday was Zone conference. it was amazing. for some reason after an amazing conference/training I always forget my notes at home and can't tell you about the amazing things I learned. hmm. I may need to start writing myself reminder notes so I can tell you the about the amazing-ness of conferences and training.  ANYWAY. We had great fun with all of the wonderfully connected Themes (tay-muh= a lesson/devo presentation of some sort) we got to watch "Meet the Mormons." it was absolutely astounding!! I'm pretty sure I cried about 5 different times, and for those of you who know me, I'm not really a crier. Meaning it was powerful. Did you guys ever see it? If not, then you should, because it is absolutely beautiful. Also, I hear that they're going to be putting it out on DVD, soon. Not entirely sure if that’s strictly for missionaries, or general church members, or what. But if you can get your hands on a copy, I would recommend it.

Wednesday, we actually had a lesson with one of our 12 non-progressing investigators. Her name is Manuela (Man-you- ella), she's German, and is very reserved. We basically got to know her, because I had never met her before, and we were unsure if she still wanted to meet with us. It was quite fun. We ended up talking about Angels and how are the usually translated beings and don't have wings (this topic came up because she has about 20 different angel statues, on which Sister Bates commented, and then had to explain that they don't usually have wings. it was quite entertaining). Needless to say, it was a very interesting lesson with some trouble keeping control of the topic of conversation.

Thursday, we went to the DMV and tried to get drivers licenses-because it's mission policy, so if/when we get transferred into a car area we don't have to wait for that, making it easier on everyone. But we ran into a glitch: Apparently, because Washington has no vehicle classification restrictions on the licenses, I have to take the driving test (in German) from a German driving school. THAT'S goanna happen. Sister Bates and I both think the lady who helped us was just in a foul mood, and wanted to be a stink, because it says that Washington licenses transfer right over, just like the Utah license. I don't know. We’ll just try again later, and see if we can find someone nicer to help us :] so, yeah, that was an adventure.

Friday, nothing to eventful happened. It was nice to have a quiet day for once.

Saturday, on the other hand, was a flurry of motion and adventure, with crazy old ladies falling out of wheelchairs and being hospitalized, the building of two schranks (wardrobes), running errands for said old ladies, canceled LA termin (appointments) after we got to the termin and lots and lots of running around town. And Sister Bates yelling about 3 different times "My life is ridiculous!!" She's sitting here listening to me read my letter and saying "You're family’s probably going to think I'm nuts." she is :) it's great fun :)

So, this week for personal study, I have been reading in the Book of Moses. It’s amazing the things you learn using footnotes. or even just other sources, like the Book of Moses. Have you ever tried to read Genesis and Moses side by side? it's so cool, seeing all of the differences, and learning more about people from the extra details provided in Moses. I wish I had my notes.

So,yeah. That was my week. How have your weeks been going? I hope it was just as fun and eventful as mine. I hope they continue to be so. I wish you the best of luck, and pray for you "every day."

Love ya!

-Sister Montgomery



Friday, March 20, 2015

"I'M A NORMAL MEMBER!" (March 16, 2015)

'ello, 'ello, 'ello!

SO. Here's what's new.

Tuesday, nothing really new or exciting happened, except that we got the paperwork to get our German drivers licenses, and set up appointment for one of the members to come with us to the DMV to help us with those. Last Zone Training we learned that it was a new mission policy for all of the missionaries to have their licenses ASAP so that if they got put into a car area they didn't have to wait to drive. So we're working on getting our licenses. It's a bit of a slow process. Also, Tuesday was my 6-month mark, and we got Döners (dooners- basically a really yummy meat sandwich) as the only part of our celebration because we were out and about literally all day, and didn't have time to have an actual party. Oh, well.

Wednesday was my first Gemeinde Abend (ward FHE) and it was really fun. the ward missionaries had the lesson, which means that, yes, we got to participate :) I gave a minute spiel on Tugend (I forgot for a second that that means "Virtue" auf English) and I basically read the section on Virtue from Preach My Gospel. (Chapter six, if anyone is interested in reading about Christ-like attributes.) The other subjects covered were charity, knowledge, humility, and hope, all of which are also covered in PMG chapter six. I challenge you to read the chapter and take the attribute test at the end of it. I will be checking up on that, next week.

Thursday, we went to visit one of the elderly sisters of the ward, Sister Kremann (Kray-man). We made pancakes and helped her figure out how to use this premade mix, and then I got to cook the pancakes. I gave up on trying to use the spatula about halfway through and just used the pan to flip the cakes. Sister Bates and Sister Kremann were both impressed, and it made me feel good, because I have virtually no cooking skills.

Okay. Time for an explanation on my subject line.

So, there is this inactive in the ward, Sister Peterson, and she hadn't been to church in about 6 years. She was a rock before, (return missionary and everything). So we'd mean trying to meet with her, and help her come back. So, Sister Bates had met with her once before I got here, and then we met with her a couple weeks ago, we read out of the Book of Mormon with her, and she said that she wanted to read on her own. And so, we made 2 follow up appointments for this week, for Tuesday and Friday. But Tuesday, she called and canceled, both appointments on us. And then she said that she'd be at church on Sunday. We were SO excited. (Just wait. the story's not over, yet). So at Gemeainde Rat, Tuesday Evening, we told bishop that sister Peterson said she would be at church, and he didn't get very excited -- we figured this was because he's used to people saying things and not following through, which is really sad. So bishop told us to call her some time during the week, and ask if there was anything we could do to help her get to church.  Friday, we call Sister Peterson, and she gets super excited. She tells us "I'm going to be there. I am a normal member, not one of your investigators! When I say I'm coming to church, then I'm coming to church!" I may or may not have fallen to the floor and gotten a stich in my side, I was laughing so hard. it was the best! Even sitting here remembering makes me start laughing again.  Yes she came to church (15 minutes early) yesterday, and we plan on seeing her next week as well. We’re super excited and happy for her as she makes changes in her life. Bishop was really surprised and happy to see her when he walked in to church. it was really fun to watch his face light up with joy. It was amazing.

Saturday, was ridiculously crazy busy. We had cleaning checks, and Brother and Sister Bentsch (Bench - a married couple from Hagen -- an area to the south east of us) came to visit us, and helped us with some culture things as well as cleaning. Brother Bentsch fixed our toilet seat--which was loose and cock-eyed -- and one of the supports from our shower curtain which had fallen off. While he was doing that, Sister Bentsch got talking to us about Family History. Her other calling is a stake indexing specialist, I believe, and Sister Bates is also a big Family History fan, so they had a fun, and Sister Bentsch gave us some useful information or get records it was really cool and nice of her. Also, after emails last week, Sister Bates and I both got on Familysearch.org, and did some Family History. Sister Bates actually did stuff, and I just kind of had fun tracing my lines back trying to get to Adam again. And guess what I found: I found someone down Grandpa Montgomery's line, I believe, and guess where she was from? At least for a little while because it said that her death place was GIEßEN, HESSEN!!!!! I was just there!!! Why didn't I find this woman's information on the website before I got transferred out???? Anyway, as you can tell, I was a little bit excited about that.

After cleaning checks we had an appointment with Sister Arnold, but while we were unter wegs (oohn-tur vehgs= en route) the bahn driver said that he couldn't go through a part of town because there was some sort of emergency going on, so everyone had to get off. SO. Sister Bates and I went on an adventure trying to find the next halte stelle (halt-uh sh-tell-uh=stop) we needed. Sister Bates had fun trying to figure things out because even though she's been here for 5 transfers, she still can't get certain places without a bahn. So we had fun getting to our appointment.

After that we had to eating appointments scheduled back to back (but 2 hours apart). Thankfully, neither of the sisters fed us a ton, just one plate, but they were big plates, and they were full. They were fancy looking meals, like when Danika plays "master chef" and has to set stuff up really nice with garnishes, and fancy cheese, and spices. They were both really good. The second appointment was with a Columbian woman, Sister Kretchmann, married to a German (who, unfortunately is deceased) who just got back from Orlaub (vacation) visiting her son in Colorado. While she was there, she got a new tablet, and after she got home was trying to get it hooked up to the Wi-Fi in her house. She asked us to help. It took a few minutes; several tries and lots of drama (mainly sister Kretchmann falling back to the floor and wailing "Heavenly Father, why??" with her hands over her face) but we eventually figured it out. Later, I told Sister Bates, that I learned a few tricks from my IT Tech, Masters Degree brother (shout out to you, Jedi!), and that she was lucky I had had to figure out how to get my PC and iPod hooked up to the Wi-Fi at home and school, or I would have had no idea how to help her.  It was great fun.

So, yeah, that was my week. it was a lot of fun. I quite enjoy telling everyone stories. Apparently I'm good at it, because Sister Bates is continually asking me to "tell me another story, :D" I have no problem with it. I think it's funny, and quite fun because I miss being able to write/read stories.

Yeah . . . Hope you all are doing well. I miss you and love you, and can't wait to hear from you, letters are always welcome, and transfers aren't for 3 weeks, and it takes about 2 weeks for a letter to get from your mailbox to mine or the other direction.

Oh, yeah! The sun is shining right now, and it's warmer than it has been all year. We're hoping spring is around the corner, because we love spring and sunshine because it makes us happy:)


-Sister Montgomery

Monday, March 9, 2015

Where are you from in Germany? (March 9, 2015)

Liebe Gruße, familie und liebe freunden! (Greetings, family and dear friends)

Well. This week has been quite the adventure. 

The sun is finally shining here in the land of Germany!!! And I'm getting over heated in my big wool coat. So we know that spring is on the way.

Last Monday, we basically had a rest day; we did shopping, and emails, and then went home and took a nap. It was really nice.

Tuesday was fun, because we were running around all day. We visited a few less actives, and had Gemeinde Rat (ward counsel), in the evening. I was (am) still new to the area, so, I didn't say a whole lot during the meeting. Then, Bishop asked me to say the closing prayer, probably because I was so quiet. And then, after the prayer, one of the older members turns and asks me from across the table “Where in Germany is you from?" I laughed and answered that I was actually from Washington State, and every time I say that, everyone automatically assumes that I mean Washington DC, and I have to constantly explain that that's on the other side of the country. It's quite funny, but also ein bisschen (a little) aggravating. 

Wednesday, we visited several more Less Actives. We do a lot of that, because there are a lot of them. I thought Wetzlar was bead with almost 200 people on the ward list, and only 70 coming to church. Here in Essen, there are almost 300 people on the ward list, and only about 70 of them are active. It posses a problem, which we are trying to fix, because both Sister Bates and I have a problem with talking to strangers, so we're doing reactivation work instead. It's still helping people come unto Christ, we're helping find the sheep that have wondered off the path, and are bringing them back. It still feels really important, even though we're not baptizing anyone, or teaching investigators, really, right now. But it's still great fun.

Thursday we had district meeting, and I gave a Theme (tay-muh=spiritual thought/lesson) on "recognizing the promptings of the spirit." it was a pretty powerful theme. I was having trouble when I was planning it, and so I prayed and asked for help. I basically said "I don't know what I'm doing, but I want to help because I feel useless right now. I'm in a new area that I don't know well, and can't seem to be much help. Help me to know what to say to teach these missionaries about the spirit." I have almost no recollection of what I said, or any of the other tidbits that the others put in, but I do remember that it was powerful, and I was not the one doing the teaching. It was very obvious that I as not really in charge. It was amazing.

Friday, we did weekly planning, and had fun encouraging each other to keep going because we had no appointments planned for the day, and were both tired. But Sister Bates and I work really well together because we have such similar personalities, so it's a lot of fun. We spend a lot of our "downtime" (i.e. after planning/during meals) talking about books. All the time. We've bonded over Animorphs (which most people have not even heard of, but she's actually read several of them), and we've given each other many suggestions for our trunky lists, and shared stories of books that the other had not read. It's a lot of fun.

We had a couple appointments on Saturday, but they fell out, so we ended up going home because I was not feeling well, and we had called the mission Nurse and she said that I needed to take it slow for the next couple days. So, we did.

Sunday was church. It was Fast Sunday, and therefore, Fast and Testimony meeting. Bishop asked Elder Pasket (one of the elders from my group who got transferred to Essen at the same time I did), and I to bear our testimonies at the end. I don't remember all of the things that were addressed in the meeting, but I remember that the spirit was very powerful. We had dinner with Bishop Linnemann (Lynn-uh-man) and his wife last night, and I got a sick blessing from him, and a good portion of the blessing was "listen to your body, it's got a natural warning system; take it really slow tomorrow, especially since it's P-Day." he also talked about the great potential I have, and that I am only expected to do what I am capable of doing: meaning don't push myself too hard, or try to do something I'm not good at, but practice until I am good. Like you said in your letter to me, Mom: Just be casual, learn by degrees, roll with the flow, and don't expect to be perfect over night. Be a duck :) it was a really powerful blessing, and it was wonderful. The first sentence Bishop said, I had been using almost the exact same wording in my mind about listening to my body, and taking it slow. And the thought that there was no way he could have known to use that wording with out the spirit leading him. 

That blessing strengthened my testimony that the Spirit really does lead blessings, and he leads us and understands us. Christ knows our thoughts and emotions; He understands exactly how we feel because he had to go though it in the Garden of Gethsemane; He understands our pain, and he understand our frustration; He knows our fears, and our joys. He knows us better than we know ourselves; He knew us before we gave up our memories to come to earth and gain bodies to be like him; and He loves us so much. I know that He knows us on an individual level, and wants us to be happy. We have the Atonement for that purpose. if we use it to It's full extent, we can share our joy and happiness with so many other people. It's amazing what even just a smile will do.

 Also, fun fact, I hit my six month mark tomorrow. Just one year left, and I'll get to see all your smiling faces again :)

Love you all, and always get so excited when I see your beautiful names in my inbox. Emailing's quite the adventure :)

-Sister Montgomery


Friday, March 6, 2015

Essen: A place where miracles are just waiting to happen

Hello, Family and Friends!!

So, this week was really long . . . 

As you all know, I got transferred, to Essen. As it turn out, it is actually not named after the verb "to eat" or "food." is it named after the plural form of Furnace (furnace-"esse"-- Furnaces-"essen,") because the Ruhr gabiet (industry area) is just that: the industry area. The area I'm in now, used to be a mining area. It's really cool. There's not a lot left over from that era, but the backstory and all the history and stuff of what used to be here us just fascinating. I haven't heard a lot, but just the fact that this used to be a miners town is really cool.

After the Temple last Tuesday, we stayed in Friedrichsdorf until P-Day ended because Sister Ferris and her MTC friend sister Megli, wanted to hang out more, and I kind of have to stay with her. So we got lots of cool temple pictures of our district, and the Frankfurt International (FI) district, and one of the FI Elders, Elder Rogers, got hold of my camera, so when you get it, you'll have lots of random pictures of me and everyone else at the temple. Travel home, as always was ridiculously long. It takes about 10 minutes from Wetzlar to Gießen, 45 minutes from Gießen to Friedberg, and then another 10-15 from Friedberg to Friedrichsdorf. So, it's about an hour of travel both ways, and because it's P-day, we have to use personal money. It's great fun. After that, we went to a tschüß (good-bye) appointment with one of our investigators, Diana, and she gave me a "good-bye" gift, and I decided that I officially hate saying goodbye to people. 

Wednesday was quite fun. We had studies, and then cleaned the apartment. And then, about 2, we left so that we could be sure to catch our train, which came at 3. We left an hour early because I had 3 suitcases, a backpack and a shoulder bag, AND we had sister Ferris's overnight stuff because she's training. So we had a lot of stuff, (there are pictures on my camera, when you get it), and it was ridiculous. The normally 10 minutes trek took us almost 25 minutes. I felt ridiculous with all that stuff, and I think I may need to go though and downsize, because I just feel like I have WAY too much stuff. Anyway. Thankfully we found a train that would take us directly to Frankfut (with no umstaigs (um-sh-EYE-guh- ie disembarkments) and we were both so happy. So then we get to Frankfurt, and the Frankfurt international sisters, who were supposed to pick us up at the main station, are not there. So Sister Ferris calls, and they tell her to go down to the U-bahns (underground trains), board one, and get off at a specific stop. So we did, and then waited about 5 minutes for them to arrive. It was very nice to be able to rest after moving all my stuff though the station.  Then we went on a split because Sister Megli is also training, and Sister Sorensen and I were not, and Sister Sorensen still needed to finish packing. So we went back to their apartment, and she and I talked for a while, and then took Sister Megli her make up, which she'd forgotten, and then went back home and finished packing. We had to reorganize her suitcases because she didn't quite have room for it all. So we found a really clever way to pack all her stuff in, where you lay the clothes around the edge hanging out, stick stuff in the middle, and then fold the clothes in and zip it shut.

Thursday was transfer day. The Tech elders were nice enough to surprise us at 9:00 and say they were stealing our bags to take them to Bahnhof for us. It was a very nice surprise. On the way to Bahnhof, I told sister Sorensen that I was so happy we didn't have to deal with luggage, because we'd have had 5 suitcases between the 2 of us, as well as our other bags, and that would have been quite the adventure trying to get to the station like that. I was very relieved that the Elders came and took that stress away. At Frankfurt Hauptbahnhof (main train station) we had a party with all the other missionaries that were being transferred and/or trained/training. Every transfer that's where everyone meets and it's called "bahnhof party." It was really fun because I got see some of my old MTC group (most of them), including my crazy friend Sister Jackson!!! (My best friend from the MTC) We had so much fun, and got some crazy funny pics, also included on my camera.

The ride back to Essen way quite fun. It was a 4 hour-long ICE ride. ICE's go super fast, so you know when it takes 4 hours by those trains, that is it a really long way from the mission central. Sister Bates and I got to know each other very well on that trip. We talked about family (she is Number Four of Eight, from Salt Lake City -- the actual city, not a suburb), and books (she's a reader, just like me :)), and hobbies (Her's are reading, and reading), and stories (I told her about Undercrossed, and the I am Number Four books) and it was just a ball! We had so much fun getting to know each other. It was great.

Friday, we had an appointment with a less active, and our goal going in, was to get her to read from the Book of Mormon on her own again. So we had the idea to read with her in the appointment (we got through the 1st 2 chapters of 1 Ne), and then she said that it would be helpful if we met with her twice a week, and read with her, and that she'd read on her own. It was fantastic! We didn't have to do anything but be there and let the spirit work. It was truly a miracle. I am excited to see what other miracles hard work brings.  Friday night there was a fireside for newly baptized, less actives, and investigators, and there was a missionary choir. We sang the EFY medley "As sisters in Zion/Army of Helamen" in German. It was really cool, and very well organized. Sister Bates and I didn't get to practice with everyone else because our appointment with Sister Peterson went late so we unintentionally missed practice. But it was just the medley, and so it was easy enough. It was a really cool fireside, and I kept wishing I had note-taking materials, but I had unintentionally left them all at home. It made me really sad, because there was a lot of good material and I wanted to remember it.

Saturday was NUTS, let me tell you. We had three different appointments, one of which fell out, and the other 2 were just odd. The first was with a sister who has been in a Pflegeheim (Pff-ley-guh- h-I-m--basically nursing home/retirement home) and needs the missionaries help with her physical therapy. not sure what exactly happened to her, but Sister Arnold is a little sweetie. She was so cute when she was walking from her bed--leaning heavily on her walker--and then back twice, and then having us help her into her electronic wheelchair. She was just absolutely adorable. I'll see if I can add a pic or two of her to my camera before I send it home. After that we went to visit another active-turned-in-active-due-to-health-problems named sister Bushach-neda or something really long like that. She's not really a talker, so our appointment was about 20 minutes long because none of us had anything to say, except during the spiritual thought. it was really fun, though. After that we had an appointment with an investigator, Dorothy, a single mother/full time student/full time job, so she's really hard to get ahold of, and it's really fun. This was the appointment that fell out, and we ended up waiting WAY to long for her to show up, which was a really bad idea. I'll tell you why in just a minute.

Here's why. We also had Stake Conference this weekend and we were invited to the Saturday evening session, to which we were almost an hour late. First, our appointment fell out, so we left after giving Dorothy a few more minutes to show. Then our trains and S-bahns didn't line up the way we needed them, too, do we wasted another 20 or so minutes just waiting for public transport. And then our other train when we finally got to Dortmund, took forever to leave the station. We seriously sat on the train for almost 15 min before it left, and it left late, and we were already stressing about being late for the meeting.  Then there was a Soccer game, and we couldn't get off the train at our stop. Literally. We got up when we were about 2 minutes from the stop we needed, and there were a bunch of drunks lining the gleis (track), and waited literally 4 seconds for people to get off before they started shoving their way onto the train. 2/3 of them had beer in their hands, and we were corned and surrounded and trapped on the train, by about 70 drunken excited soccer fans. They were breathing down our necks and in our faces, and it was DISGUSTING! I had finally had enough of being 3 feet from the door, yet unable to get off, and yelled that we needed to get off. Sister Bates told us later that someone on the other side of her had turned and asked "Why? The game's over." so we had to go one further, and because it was Saturday, half of the trains didn't come, so we were stuck at the other station for about half an hour, and it was just a mess. So, we finally made it to the Stake Center an hour late. There were some elders in the hall for some reason or other, and they came up to us, and being snarky said "it starts at 18, not 19. Why are you so late?"

So, yeah. Those are my many adventures of Transfer week. Stake conference was fabulous, and a wonderful respite from all the horrors of soccer games and trains, and moving, and just life. I love church and Conferences. They really are an inspired tool that God uses to help us strengthen each other. I know that he uses us to help each other, and ourselves because there is really no other way for us to learn that for someone to have experienced it, and then share that with others. We really are here for a reason. I have definitely been moved to Essen so that I can help people, and I am so excited to see the changes I can help others make, and look back at the changes in myself. It's going to be a great transfer, with many miracles, and I am so excited to be able to take part in this work. It really is a great blessing.

Anyway, I'll let you know more about life if you write me a snail mail. Here's my address

Address for letters
Sister Jubilee Annette Montgomery
Kirche Jesu Christi
Liebigstraße 25
45145 Essen
Germany/Deutschland

Please address packages:
Sister Jubilee Annette Montgomery
Kirche Jesu Christi
Corneliusstraße 18
60325 Frankfurt a. Main
Germany/Deutschland

Love ya!

-Sister Montgomery